One year ago today was the last day I saw my dad alive. We took him out to dinner at this new Mexican restaurant he really wanted to go to. I had never been there, but my brothers had taken him there recently and he wanted to go there again. It was good, but I noticed my dad didn’t really eat that much. He was on the downward spiral at that point and had been for a while, but I didn’t think that was all the time I was going to get with him. What would I have done differently that night had I known? Did I hug him? Did I tell him I loved him? I am sure I probably did. We had taken him out to celebrate Father’s Day. The only thing I can say that I know I would have done differently, had I known, is that I would have tried to take everything in…really just tried to soak up the whole evening. Hug your dad today. Tell him you love him. Soak it up.
Soak it Up
Sunday, June 17, 2007
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